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26 October 2004 @ 09:27 pm
I know he loves me. Doesn't mean I need to know he thinks that 19 year old blonde is a hottie.


Yeah, well... I'm all out of sorts, hormonally, so.... double gah.
Bird on a Wing: Oh really?caragana_leaves on October 26th, 2004 06:31 pm (UTC)
I HATE it when guys do that. Hate it hate it hate it. *fumes* I hope I never become so impolite as to do it to a guy.
Sarah: Stallionskachi113 on October 26th, 2004 06:42 pm (UTC)
Mmf. That wasn't the most intelligent thing for him to say...

You said that Will Scarlet was a hottie, but he completely agreed with you, so that's different. ;)
Peregrinejperegrine on October 26th, 2004 09:08 pm (UTC)
So, this is going to sound a bit crass. If you have absolutely no doubts about his devotion and loyalty to you, then where is the problem? Perhaps under the circumstances he might have kept the thought to himself instead of voicing it out loud. I don't know the exact context of the situation. Somehow I doubt he thinks she's got ANYTHING on you. Besides, you're more than a bit of a hottie yourself, darlin' ;)

As a wise uncle once said to me: It doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home to eat.

Kelladyjoust on October 26th, 2004 09:13 pm (UTC)
Not crass, m'dear, not at all. The context of the situation lies only in my current emotional state. I'm all sorts of grumbly and grey from last weekend; that is colouring my current mood. And I know this, and I do know that it affects how I react to Don's comments..

If only the head and the heart spoke to each other regularly!
Peregrinejperegrine on October 26th, 2004 09:53 pm (UTC)
I understand completely. Under the circumstances, it would have behooved him to keep that one to himself, as it would likely be taken in the least positive way at the time. I sincerely doubt it was deliberate.

Lynette and I have had our stresses and strains of late. The worst of it can be traced back to my continued state of unemployment - going on six months. That has caused no small amount of financial worry. To try to keep our ends together, I have been working my posterior off at every opportunity. There was the week and a half in High Point NC working for a lighting company. I got back from that just in time for a weekend performing down here. Now I'm earning some money on the side assisting in the flood reconstrucion on a friend's property. Due to the 70+ mile commute down there, I've stayed over a couple of nights to save on gas. Add all of it up, and I'm covering the finances at the expense of time at home with my wife. Hopefully one of the positions I've recently applied for will come through. As it is, we muddle on through as best we can.
Ilena Ayalanetsearcher on October 26th, 2004 09:44 pm (UTC)
*Frown*. That's a tacky thing to do. My ex did that once before we were married, when we were in a restaurant, and I *still* remember how ticked off I was. I don't expect a guy to be blind, but a poorly placed comment or three can make it sound like they are thinking about more than just momentarily enjoying the view. (Not to be sexist, it applies to the ladies as well.) I've had several discussions with a very-married former co-worker about this, and his POV is that there's nothing wrong with looking - or commenting - he's not going to *do* anything. *sigh* I just don't agree.
Kendallmilfsrus on October 27th, 2004 05:56 am (UTC)
I thoroughly understand. Yes we all know the whole coming home to eat thing, but still. When the opposite of what we are is pointed out and we are told that they are all that, it's gonna bite. SOmetimes bite hard. sometimes not so much , but all in all it does bite.
Sometimes even the best of boys forget that. And you know in some cases, and I can only really speak for myself, it's bad enough the magazines, Tv and movies, say that we are not perfect. It just jolts when it comes from those who love us in a moment of forgotten thought.
Evil me usually points out the hot dishey guy in the corner.
Turnabout and all.
But you know that on a scale from 1-10 To the man you're off the charts baby!